Reblog: Real Talk: You Chose Him

This post by Tikeetha really spoke to me. I am a child of divorce and married to a man who went through a divorce with two small children. I’m thankful Matt, James and Jordan didn’t have to go through this kind of pain, but using children as pawns in divorce is more common then most people think. When two people are so angry with each other and the gloves come off, they sometimes will stop at nothing to get what they want and forget about the little ones, who are the REAL ones being hurt.

A Thomas Point of View

Can we get real for a moment? Have real talk? Discuss something that’s been on my mind for a minute.

Okay, here goes…

Girl, you chose him! Stop acting like the man that you laid down with and had a baby with is unfit to see his dang child. Was he unfit when you were sleeping with him? Was he unfit when you gave birth? Was he unfit when he showed up at every doctor’s appointment, sporting event or school performance? No.

No, he wasn’t. He was there being a partner with you. Loving you. Being excited for his blessing that was growing in your womb.

We have to stop this backward thinking when it comes to raising our children. We don’t need to raise our children alone. Nor should we have to. If you have a man that is a father and wants to be a father then why…

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