I just love this blog post by Love and Lattes!
She made so many valid points that I’m sure all step moms have faced one way or another!
Don’t judge a book by it’s cover, and don’t judge a situation unless you have walked in those same shoes. Those are two phrases we hear often. Being a stepparent is hard. We are not the biological parent, but are still very much so, still a parent. Many who have never been in our shoes often have confused ideas of who we are, what we are here for, and why we are here.
I think the number one person in most blended family situations that is the most confused about us is the bio-parent. They are often defensive and unwelcoming of another parent entering not only their children’s lives, but also theirs. I have come to realize over the years, that while I know my stepson will be in my life forever, so will his mother. So, for you, bio-mom. Here are 5 ideas of me that you have in…
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